I got it.
Its not 100%, but its pretty damn close to feeling "right" as far as I'm concerned. I get 2 tiny little chatters when initiating full braking power, but I could alleviate that even probably with being smoother on the controls.
Bike settles 25mm under its own weight, and another 10mm with me on it, for a grand total of 35mm of sag.
So with this info, I'll likely tweak it little by little, riding between each tweak to see how it feels.
All is well again.
