[Jaynnus]

I never understand these issues.....

I have three kids, and get 32.00 a week, yes folks, 32.00 a week to help raise them. I don't know what you folks eat, but this does not even buy them cereal for the week, much less anything else. The father, well, I TAKE them to him whenever he wants and PICK them up when it is time to go home. I buy every stitch of cloths including the stuff that stay's at his place, I pay for ALL their living expenses, all their activities, provide medical care and insurance and everything in between.

Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining, they are my kids and I will work myself to the bone to provide for them. I just never understand all the stories I hear about fathers needing more rights. Something tells me I got the shit end of the stick...but it's my stick, and I take responsibility for it.

Besides all this, isn't it nice to have a life that you can come and go as you please and not have to worry about appointments, rides to basketball, school work, laundry, money etc etc etc and only have to 'take care' of them when you can or want. It's as easy as, 'nope, I have to work this weekend' and once again it's me that has to do it all.

I gladly do it all. They are mine. And never once did I ever use the phrase "I have to babysit (my own kids!!)". Besides, I know where they are, what they are doing and that they are safe, warm and fed.