One more point.
So your saying I should leave positive feedback for the seller after I have paid for the item, recieved it and I am happy with it? I just get the item?
The seller gets the money for the Item AND positive feedback?
I have been burned on that one too many times and this is why I try to ask for feedback first, I have always done that and this is the FIRST time I have had a problem. (most likely from my errant wording)
