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Originally Posted by Dianne  She stopped having her monthly in November. My mother was the only one that knew, she did nothing. She started getting a little belly, eating a lot more and getting morning sickness, my mother still did nothing but poke at her belly and laugh at her.
It wasnt until yesterday when she had her FIRST doctors appointment, which included an ultrasound, that confirmed she was pregnant and confirmed it is a little girl.
Its too late for an abortion now. |
I am stunned, just stunned.
Your mother I guess is a lost cause at this stage, but any 14 year old really should know the significancy of this situation and know enough to have done something about it early enough.
Us tax paying workers will have the pleasure of raising your sister and your niece now...great.
A little story here. When I was 15, I got my 15 year old girlfriend pregnant. As soon as we knew, I asked to meet with her mother and father and stood in front of them LIKE A MAN and told them what had happened and asked for:
1. Their forgiveness and understanding.
2. Their advice.
They respected the fact that I did the right thing by telling them. All of us discussed the situation and dealt with it the way we saw fit at the time.
I think nowadays the thing to do is to try to hide the situation and maybe you can get away with it long enough to just throw the child in a dumpster if you're lucky. Your sister got busted I guess.
Sorry if I seem to be judgemental, I hope your sister raises a wonderful child and is a wonderful mother. Either that or she puts the child up for adoption so that a responsible family can care for the child in a stable environment.
Derek