[MissTwisties]

It's nice to see how some people can easily say "too much baggage". So are you saying that because a woman (or a man, for that matter) is not allowed to have a second chance at love and having a life, relationship, marriage, etc. with someone else...because they have a child from a past relationship? I understand some of you might have been burned with a situation like this, heck I have been with one or two guys who had a kid (one of them had 2) and it didn't work out. I couldn't stand their kids, the ex, or whatever other reason. BUt to just say as a general statement that a woman (or guy) with a child is only problems waiting to happen is not true. It all depends on how you fit in the picture..if it works for you and the other partie and you make each other happy, then why not?? You could love someone else's child close, if not as much as if they were your own.