[RyanNicholson]

i think i opened up a whole new can of worms here...

thanks for all the well thought out posts. i have no intention of ditching her just because she has a kid....

the last couple years I've had this habit of dating a girl for 2 weeks then i "get really busy with work and miraculously my phone, internet, and car all die at once." I'm thinking about resolving that issue for once.... just thought it'd be interesting to see what you guys thought, especially the people that have kids or have been through something similar.