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Originally Posted by TheIglu I'm not a fan of kids when I have to act a certain way around them. If they were my own, I'd probably be more open to the idea of kids. For the time being, I like being able to go for a ride, spend money on useless bike shit, go out to dinner without ruining the meals of everyone around us at a nice establishment, sleep in, stay up late, etc etc etc.
Adoption may be in our best interest years down the road, but not yet. |
I was at this exact point, and decided that I wasn't going to chance it. I went full bore at a very young age, and elected to make it offical. No more heart-flutter panics when a condom breaks, no crazy chemicals going into my girl. I figure if my I change my mind (as everyone always says I will), that there are plenty of children out there begging for a good home.
But for now, I'm childfree, happy and secure in my decision. I just wish more people would really think about what being a parent entails before they have children. The future of our society is in your hands.