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Am I being unfair?

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    Re: Am I being unfair?


    I have this feeling that if you have the house before the girl you're effed.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Get multiple houses and multiple girls!

    And multiple bikes

    But you only need one dual sport...yes, just one

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Quote Originally Posted by csmutty View Post
    I have this feeling that if you have the house before the girl you're effed.
    Pre-nup that shit, otherwise she'll (or he'll, I assume) get half.

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    My latest read is she'll get half anyway.
    Get over it. Then go buy a bitchin' dirt bike on credit. Half that debt'll be hers too.

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    In that case, buy all the things on credit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nhbubba View Post
    My latest read is she'll get half anyway.
    Get over it. Then go buy a bitchin' dirt bike on credit. Half that debt'll be hers too.
    Is that true? Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsorfas View Post
    Is that true? Lol
    Yes, girl I've been seeing had her house before she was married, got married, got divorced. It was a battle. I forget the particulars but he got some cash out of it. If you own anything worth anything prior to marriage prenup or don't get married. As I usually say, why the hell would you bet someone half your shit you'll love them forever?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsorfas View Post
    Is that true? Lol
    Welcome to America.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Quote Originally Posted by tsorfas View Post
    Is that true? Lol
    Yes. Debt and property are definitely shared in matters of divorce.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    8 more years, just 8 more....

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    my wife got me a TAG Heuer as an engagement present and she already had a house. All I did was use the ex's engagement ring she had and provided a sizable amount of funds to get and amazing engagement/wedding ring.


    I've always wanted a TAG the rest was a bonus!

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    There ARE provisions in NH that protect you to a point if you've owned your house for a certain amount of time before getting married. You'd still have to sell the property basically - or "buy her out", but the one that owned the house previously CAN actually make out pretty good...

    I have two friends that've been down that road in the past three years, both with the same scenario. And they both made out pretty well...far better than they thought they were...

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Step 1: marry rich crazy milf
    Step 2: pickup racing habit and stop spending time with her. wait til she cheats on you...record it
    Step 3: divorce
    Step 4: profit!
    Step 5: post video on PornHub...

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    Could just marry the old Gilf's I see everyday at work. then wait from them to croak.

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    I was asking about the debt part.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Quote Originally Posted by tsorfas View Post
    I was asking about the debt part.
    Yes. If you marry someone with a shit ton of debt, expect that to be part of the negotiation process when the divorce occurs.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    What's important is that (a) you both support each other's lives and interests, and (b) you can talk about stuff and work it out. Whether the end result of that is a ring and/or a clutch, isn't the point. Whether you were able to help each other both be happy with whatever the result is, is what matters.

    My wife used her grandmother's ring for our engagement. And it was a long engagement (6 years) because she wanted to be responsible and clear her debts from her previous life before we combined our finances. We did then spend a decent amount on the wedding ring (sapphire, mined in Montana, not diamond), but don't regret that; she enjoys that ring a lot.

    How important and when marriage is, depends on a lot of factors and priorities. Personally, I think the key line is that you should be married before you have children, as a lot of legal stuff depends on that. But then my daughter and her boyfriend disagree, and that's their business and choice (my grandson just turned one year old).

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheIglu View Post
    Yes. If you marry someone with a shit ton of debt, expect that to be part of the negotiation process when the divorce occurs.
    Be able to document her debt. Otherwise it's a he-said, she-said.
    A good lawyer will be able to get the documentation you and I can't. But then at the end of the day isn't it just easier to pay her off, get her to settle and present the judge with a signed agreement?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nhbubba View Post
    Be able to document her debt. Otherwise it's a he-said, she-said.
    A good lawyer will be able to get the documentation you and I can't. But then at the end of the day isn't it just easier to pay her off, get her to settle and present the judge with a signed agreement?
    Just pay and GTFO was my mission. Had to split a bunch, still got half a bunch

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    What the hell kind of horsepower do you have for a Stage 3 clutch? I have 330 AWHP in the WRX and the Exedy Stage I clutch works great.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Garandman View Post
    What the hell kind of horsepower do you have for a Stage 3 clutch? I have 330 AWHP in the WRX and the Exedy Stage I clutch works great.
    Heh...

    I have a 2017 GTI with the performance package, advertised crank hp/tq is 220/260. Dyno runs on stock vehicles are showing at least that much to the wheels, power is being understated. I was running a setup dyno'd at 280 hp and am moving to a Cobb profile that hits 315 hp/ 380 tq on their test car with the same spec as mine. Planning on going meth/IC with an IS38 (Golf R turbo) and a protune from JR tuning so I'm looking for a clutch that can handle 450-500 tq. Most stage 2 clutches for the platform top out at a 400 ft/lb rating.

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    Re: Am I being unfair?

    Quote Originally Posted by nhbubba View Post
    Be able to document her debt. Otherwise it's a he-said, she-said.
    A good lawyer will be able to get the documentation you and I can't. But then at the end of the day isn't it just easier to pay her off, get her to settle and present the judge with a signed agreement?
    an observation from people I know, not personal experience, the most common debt is student loans

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    How is it possible that such a glorious beginning led to so much suck?

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    Cause "however I did it is the right way for everyone and I'll be offended if anyone says otherwise".

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