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    lol....well this thread has taken a funny way.

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Originally posted by Mystery Squid
    you're right, T is definitely funny, in all respects.
    "not funny 'haha', funny queer"

    (name that movie )

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Originally posted by OreoGaborio
    "not funny 'haha', funny queer"

    (name that movie )
    ain't nothin but a SLING BLADE

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    i'm sorry, you must phrase your response in the form of a question.... you loose

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    I have been involved with children and schools for a long time. You have no clue who I am or what I have experienced or even if I am a part time tech teacher at a NH school. You ask a question on a public board I will chip in my 2 cents.

    Most children that act up in school are a direct result of the parent upbringing. Maybe your daughter is taking lessons from the way you interact with other adults. Maybe if you do not get your way with your husband you just ignore him and do what you want anyways. Maybe that is why your daughter acts like that in school and has no respect for the teacher. Maybe she wants to be a princess just like mommy. I personally have no clue who you are so I can not judge you or your daughter but all I know about you is from what you post.

    That is all for now....

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    That girl needs to get her ass beat. Everytime my teachers called my parents or sent home a letter, my mom or dad would wear my ass out with whatever they found - belt, switch, didn't matter. I got beat with a wet towel once. My ass said Holiday Inn for three days. Sometimes they'd use extension cords... and they'd plug 'em in, haha.

    Whip that girl's ass!

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Those two last posts are not worth a comment. But I'll say one thing...ftrain, you're an ...*edited*. With me anyway. And I have no clue where your hostile behavior towards me comes from (don't bother answering this one, I don't give a damn), but if it's only from what I post on an internet forum (you never met me in person after all) you are clueless. And I'd ask from you to refrain to give me your "0.02" next time I ask for a "friendly" advice. Your comments in this thread are obviously just to attack me personally, they are far from anything constructive. I am FAR from being threated as a princess in this house. I clean the whole house, cook 3 meals a day, do laundry every day, help with kids homework and listen to my husband's work problems everyday. I read stories, mow the lawn and clean up the yard, drive kids to school, stop fights between sisters, take care of others kids (daycare business) etc. I don't spend my husband's hard earned money on fancy clothes and shoes or haircuts every month. I have no time to do things I like to do (like riding my bike). So you tell me I'm a little fuckin princess. I'm more like the maid of everyone. And you know what? Even tho I might complaint sometimes that I am tired, and need time for myself...I appreciate what I have.

    So there, I'm sick of your stupid comments here and there. You don't like me, fine. You think I care? Go see somewhere else if I'm there. Oh, there is also an ignore option in your settings, use it.

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Sorry, I don't beat my kids. Because what you just described there...it's called child abuse. A hand on their butt when they really deserve it? Yeah ok. But I'm gonna use a different approach before reaching the point where I need to do this. I wouldn't blame a kid for running away for being threated the way you just described...I did.

    Originally posted by Cam_In_RI
    That girl needs to get her ass beat. Everytime my teachers called my parents or sent home a letter, my mom or dad would wear my ass out with whatever they found - belt, switch, didn't matter. I got beat with a wet towel once. My ass said Holiday Inn for three days. Sometimes they'd use extension cords... and they'd plug 'em in, haha.

    Whip that girl's ass!

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    Re: Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Originally posted by MissTwisties
    Many of you in here have kids, small and grown ups...maybe you can help? Just came back from a conference with my daughter's teachers...how do you deal (help) your kids being attentive in class, and to ignore everything going around them, when they should focus on the teacher in front of the class? They told me she is so smart, that she is a nice little girl, but that she also want to be the leader and can be manipulative with the others. They told me if she could only be attentive, she would probably get awsome scores everywhere. But because she's not listening in class, she gets a "D" here and there. That is killing me. How can I help her achieve a good behavior, without hurting her feelings, when in the same time, I'm trying to get to know her and be a good mom to her for all those lost years that we didn't have togueter...I'm trying to be strict with her, but I don't want her to hate me...


    Wow sounds like every parent teacher conference I was part of Tell you the truth V, it's probaly cause she can do everything they are doing and doesn't think it's a challenge. That was my prob, I finally got my head out of my ass but it was too late. I was always considered the class clown, but when it came to testing I blew my friends who studied their asses off away Try and find some after school program for her that will let her hone those leadership skills, that just might help

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    Re: It is hard...

    Originally posted by Pearldog
    fwiw...a father of 2 girls..8 and 2


    you poor poor poor man






    3yr boy, 20month girl

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    Originally posted by MissTwisties
    Sorry, I don't beat my kids. Because what you just described there...it's called child abuse. A hand on their butt when they really deserve it? Yeah ok. But I'm gonna use a different approach before reaching the point where I need to do this. I wouldn't blame a kid for running away for being threated the way you just described...I did.
    Ok, so since you're playing best friend with your kid, she now runs over you and doesn't take anything you say seriously. I bet she's one of those kids I see in Wal Mart where they throw a complete tantrum when they can get their way, and you just try to shush her and allow her to embarass the shit out of you.

    LOL, now THAT'S good parenting. Bad children are often a reflection of what's going on in the home. What's going on in yours?

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    You're way out of line here. So from what I understand, the ONLY way to discipline kids is to BEAT them? And that's what YOU call good parenting? WOW. I'll tell you one thing, if I ever suspect anyone to practice this kind of stuff ontheir kids, I'm gonna report them to the OCCS. And you know what? It is my JOB and my obligation to do so. I discipline my kids using different tactics. As of now, my oldest daughter is grounded indifinitly until she improves in school. That means: no more friends over. And she doesn't go to friend's house either. No more TV. No more going to bed at 9pm. Now it's 8pm, and if she doesn't behave, it goes earlier by half an hour each time. No more dessert after supper (ice cream, cookies, etc.), except for fruits. No more movie rentals on weekends. And no more field trips. You can bet she was crying when I told her the new "rules"...and she started to cry when I told her she was on her way of getting herself a "D" in math...she didn't even know. She was crying because she's used to have only A's and B's...and she was awfully disapointed.

    It apparently work, what I'm doing....because it's been 2 days that I heard she behave in class and listen to her teacher. But I also told her not to play games with me...that she needs to KEEP a good behavior in order to have her priviledges reinstated. I made it clear with her that if she's behaving just to get me to give her back her priviledges, she will be grounded for a long long time after that.

    My kids are good kids. But kids are just that...kids. No they do not trow tantrums to me in shopping malls. They know better. I do not play 'best friend" either, like you apparently judge me for. But I'm here to LISTEN to them. Love them. Encourage them. And beating them the way you described...hell, do you have kids? And is this the way you threat them? Wait...be carefull answering me about this.

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    Feel free to take your head out of the sand anyday now.

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    Cam kids behave very well. It is not like he beats them with a metal baseball bat he only uses a wiffle ball bat. They listen real quick and rarley step out of line. I think Cam might be a little extreme at times because his kids hit my new car with a wiffle ball and he lost it but I doubt his kids will make that mistake twice.

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    Those scars are healing up nicely. If they didn't squirm as much when I told them to sit still, they wouldn't have gotten burned as badly.

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    I'm wrong? ok. So just for the sake of the argument and making my point here. You say you have been beaten with belts, extension cords...??? How did that make you feel? Belittled maybe? Like you were worth nothing? Like you were not good enough? Let me tell you. I didn't want to say anything because God forbid when you talk about private stuff on the net. But I've been beated with belts too. My mom hit me so hard on the face that my nose bleeded I can't remember how many times. My dad once hit me with force in my stomach after a parents/teacher reunion. I was getting beaten up for any reasons, everyday. Dad and mom being on drugs and alcohol, I was the perfect punching bad and stress relief for them. They made me feel like the worse piece of shit ever. I was going to school every morning crying in the morning fog, waiting for the bus to come and get me. And it was not better at school, because I couldnt' trust anyone. I grew up resenting them, telling myself I'd never threat my kids the way they did to me. And I succeeded. So I wonder HOW you can tell me you've been threated this way, and think it's OK to threat our kids this same way too? I don't understand...so I guess you are the opposite of me, you grew thinking what your parents did to you to raise you was ok. But it's not. Children are PRECIOUS. Handle with care!!!

    I've been thinking...I bet you are just trying to push my buttons and test me.

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    Shit. I should have listen to myself....After reading the last two posts...I knew you guys were only trying to piss me off and push my buttons!!! ARGNNNNNN!!!!! You guys sucks.

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    I'm not joking. Corporal punishment is the way to go. Wear that little ass out if she gets out of line. Time out is for liberal retards - their kids grow up to be axe murders.

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    Ummm...ok. So for the sake of ending this here...let's agree to disagree. And just be carefull, because I heard OCCS is hardcore and will take away your kids if they hear about a parent doing these things to their kids. I know I have been told that a parent could have their kids taken away from them for just slapping their butts with a hand.

    Done with this argument.

    Originally posted by Cam_In_RI
    I'm not joking. Corporal punishment is the way to go. Wear that little ass out if she gets out of line. Time out is for liberal retards - their kids grow up to be axe murders.

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    Originally posted by Mystery Squid
    wow, I agree with cam...
    OMG! I'm one of them!

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    Guys...how do you deal with your kid?

    Originally posted by MissTwisties
    You're way out of line here. So from what I understand, the ONLY way to discipline kids is to BEAT them? And that's what YOU call good parenting? WOW.
    Hey - you're finally catching on! I read Parenting magazine on occassion (well, OK - I mostly just look at the pictures) but there seem to be a fair number of psychopanthages that still condone this type of child discipline. Don't knock it till you try it. I'm not suggesting you hit them in the face or even in the arm (where it can leave a visible bruise). Just slowly ease them into it. A tug on the hair, a broom to the rear... just set a precedent. They'll think twice about mouthing off next time.

    Oh, and if that doesn't work... give them the silent treatment.

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    The dark side? I got that covered already. Literally.

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    you mean the blue/chrome TLR?

    that would be alfred.

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    Originally posted by Mystery Squid
    LMAO!

    You're a natural then! Give in, vote for Bush, and your journey will be complete!
    Don't you know anything? Black people can't be Republicans. Except for Colin Powell and Condoleezza Rice, who are not actually black in the traditional sense but are actually visitors from a future Earth where we have depleted the ozone layer to the point where everyone has permanent really dark tans on account of evolution, sent back in time to prevent the liberals from saving the environment and thereby threatening their future existence.

    Duh.

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    Originally posted by Mystery Squid
    yeah, that's what I meant....

    is he on here?
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    ALL BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT LOOK ALIKE!
    Who is this Alfred guy, anyway?

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