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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanNicholson View Post
    doesn't pretty much everybody fall into that roll in the future?

    Umm yeah.. but it would then be YOUR biological kid. BIG Difference.

    Wait until the first time they yell "Your not my DAD!!"

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    Wait until the first time they yell "Your not my DAD!!"
    Then you say, well thats what your mom called me last night!

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    Wait until the first time they yell "Your not my DAD!!"

    that would mean being a disciplinarian which I couldn't imagine happening for a LONG time into a relationship. Like someone mentioned before in this thread if I'm going to be anything to the kid I would rather it be a role model or something, not a father figure.

    either way i dunno, this situation is so weird. I'm intrigued by this new chic but the fact that things are so up in the air with the first girl is hard. Thats why I was honest about still kind of being involved w/ someone (even though I haven't seen her in over a week). She seemed to understand though. They've both got their head on their shoulders and both are way more mature/responsible/intelligent than any other girl I've dated (not that thats much of an accomplishment).

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    Quote Originally Posted by l3uddha View Post
    i see what you're sayin here ryan.

    i never really had a thing for feet, until i saw a really hot looking one. now i'm always checking out girls' feet.
    kinda like milfs.

    the fact this new girl is a milf is just really odd coincidence haha



    at least they aren't yelling at me in Portuguese or stealing my cell phone

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    I'm shopping in a different Aisle of the MILF store then you. People tend to look at me funny (judgingly) when I walk around with someone in their early twenties.

    MILF 1.0 - involved in a personal crisis right now. Needs space. The two of you are just dating. You don't have to be intimately involved in every single aspect of her life. Should you be concerned? Of course. Are you allowed to step back and live a life of your own while she deals with her ex? Depends on the situation you had with her. Do everyone involved a favor - be honest with her.

    MILF 2.0 - New relationship. It'll have that new relationship smell and feel to it. It'll take a few weeks for you to figure out where she fits in.

    Hang out, get the bike out, live your life, see where everyone falls into place... It's just dating... Be upfront with everyone involved. That doesn't mean they have to know about each other - just that you're not ready to make the bee line for the alter.

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    Quote Originally Posted by Doc View Post
    Umm yeah.. but it would then be YOUR biological kid. BIG Difference.

    Wait until the first time they yell "Your not my DAD!!"
    For some people, there is not a lot of difference...a child can be loved tremendously whether he/she is yours or not. Think about children eing adopted...you think those parents love them any less (in most cases) because they are not biological babies...It depends on the connection made with that child. Also, my oldest not being my husband's biological daughter, I would NEVER tolerate her to say something like that to him. For all that he's done for her, I would not allow her such disrespect towards him. He also can discipline her when sees fit (no physical disciplinary actions EVER tho) and will take measures to put her back at her place if she is not behaving like we expect her to.

    Every reconstructed family is different, you do what works best for YOUR family. And hopefully everyone is happy.

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    SS yea you pretty much hit the nail on the head with that one. Thats kinda why I gave her the space she needed because it really isn't my issue, and my presence wasn't helping any. I told her anything I can do, let me know....but I doubt it.

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    ANy chance of combining the packages and getting 2 Milfs + 1 ?











    Come on I know I was not the only one thinking that

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    Quote Originally Posted by SSearchVT View Post
    Hang out, get the bike out, live your life, see where everyone falls into place... It's just dating... Be upfront with everyone involved. That doesn't mean they have to know about each other - just that you're not ready to make the bee line for the alter.

    I dated a MILF for awhile when she had her son I had... my other friend who was hot... don't be like me though It works great for scheduleing and hard to get busted.

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    Her ex Had the kid on the weekends and wed so I saw her on those days, and my other friend filled in when she wasn't around?

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    Dear "Uncle" Ryan,

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    Yes go slow but a package deal not so bad

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    I'm liking the way Milf 2.0 is put together....

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    Thats my ex. I just want to ask you one thing, how do I taste?









































    HAHAHAHHAHHA Just fucking with you. As far as looks go, 2.0>>>>>>>1.0 but if you are looking for a relationship you have to go with the one with the better personality. Then again personality can only go so far.

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    I need to see better cleavage shots in order to make an appropriate decision.

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    Quote Originally Posted by a13x View Post
    I need to see better cleavage shots in order to make an appropriate decision.
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    Quote Originally Posted by RyanNicholson View Post
    that would mean being a disciplinarian which I couldn't imagine happening for a LONG time into a relationship. Like someone mentioned before in this thread if I'm going to be anything to the kid I would rather it be a role model or something, not a father figure.

    either way i dunno, this situation is so weird. I'm intrigued by this new chic but the fact that things are so up in the air with the first girl is hard. Thats why I was honest about still kind of being involved w/ someone (even though I haven't seen her in over a week). She seemed to understand though. They've both got their head on their shoulders and both are way more mature/responsible/intelligent than any other girl I've dated (not that thats much of an accomplishment).
    Quote Originally Posted by MissTwisties View Post
    For some people, there is not a lot of difference...a child can be loved tremendously whether he/she is yours or not. Think about children eing adopted...you think those parents love them any less (in most cases) because they are not biological babies...It depends on the connection made with that child. Also, my oldest not being my husband's biological daughter, I would NEVER tolerate her to say something like that to him. For all that he's done for her, I would not allow her such disrespect towards him. He also can discipline her when sees fit (no physical disciplinary actions EVER tho) and will take measures to put her back at her place if she is not behaving like we expect her to.

    Every reconstructed family is different, you do what works best for YOUR family. And hopefully everyone is happy.

    Ok look... I am just speaking from my experience. I have dated MILF's in the past...
    It starts with the "you don't have to deal with my baggage" "I don't want to worry you" "We will just take it slow" "You don't have to be anything you don't want to be" "I can still be a freaky girl at 2am cause my kids are sound sleepers and won't wake up..."

    Then comes the slow realization that you are more than just a friend to the kids. They look up to you and then they start depending on you and they love you... There is a very small leap from "Mom's friend" to "Mom's Boyfriend" to "Man of the house that I treat just like I would a dad"

    It takes a MATURE man to raise another mans kid. (not that YOU are not mature enough I just know I wasn't until the last one when I got burned BIG time.)
    Don't kid yourself. If these relationships have any value and you plan on them lasting longer than 6 months you WILL have an effect on the kids lives. Either Directly or indirectly. They see you alot or you are taking time with mommy away from them.

    The kid is #1 in Mom's life. Or at least they should be. She is scoping you to see that you are a good man to be around the kid. CONSTANTLY.

    Milf 1.0 sounds like she needs a supporting friend, she is going through alot and the last thing she needs is to worry about another relationship. Until she finishes with the frist one and learns to stand on her own 2 feet ALONE, she is doomed to repeat her failures again (at least that is what my shrink told me when I was in your SAME situation.

    Milf 2.0 sounds fun. She is happy to know about 1.0 and where she stands in the relationship, she will jump your bones as soon as you say go and not give a dang about 1.0.

    If I was you I would be straight with 1.0 the first chance I got... "Hey, I am here for you and want to help you through this tough time but I don't think it is good for you to have to deal with me and your kid and your EX. Focus on your kid and your EX and we will be friends until you have the time and energy to explore more with me"

    Then again she may go and sleep with your younger brother and end up marrying him like my ex Milf did!

    I bet both of these ladies are GREAT girls with good heads on their shoulders. You just have to decide to what extent you want to be in their (the girl and the kid) lives.

    Good luck man! I think you will do fine!

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    If I was you I would be straight with 1.0 the first chance I got... "Hey, I am here for you and want to help you through this tough time but I don't think it is good for you to have to deal with me and your kid and your EX. Focus on your kid and your EX and we will be friends until you have the time and energy to explore more with me"

    yea we've already had that talk, thats pretty much how things are at this point. which actually lead to me meeting 2.0 in the first place. I hear what you're sayin though....i'm just kinda playin things by ear, we'll see how it all turns out

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    so quick update.

    2.0 kind of fails the racing test thing, shes just not into it or the fact that so much of my attention goes into it.

    1.0 calls me and wants to get together and just chat/talk about things....so we go out to grab some drinks and a late dinner on thursday. (after not seeing each other for about a month to give her space to figure things out in her life.)

    friends of 2.0 apparently saw me there. i find out about this last night....hilarity ensues.


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    Tell 2.0 I'm single Ryan, and it can be a revenge thing. I'm fine with jumping on a grenade for you there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by l3uddha View Post
    did u have to get her something for mother's day? i mean, how does that work?
    a simple happy mothers day seemed to work fine

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    Tell 2.0 I'm single Ryan, and it can be a revenge thing. I'm fine with jumping on a grenade for you there.
    thanks for offering to make such a sacrifice man...i love how helpful the racing community is.

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    think there's a MILF forum that you recruit MILF 3.0

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    ryan, have you met the new melissa girl?

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    Re: So I'm dating a MILF.....

    Quote Originally Posted by RyanNicholson View Post
    so quick update.

    2.0 kind of fails the racing test thing, shes just not into it or the fact that so much of my attention goes into it.

    1.0 calls me and wants to get together and just chat/talk about things....so we go out to grab some drinks and a late dinner on thursday. (after not seeing each other for about a month to give her space to figure things out in her life.)

    friends of 2.0 apparently saw me there. i find out about this last night....hilarity ensues.

    I don't see the problem... MILF 2.0 knows about MILF 1.0 hence there should be no issue, correct?

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