i went through this a few years ago. barely rode my street bike. one year i didnt even register it.
i needed something different and fun. i bought my 690 SM and that was it, its what i needed.
the breakout looks cool i guess but youre right, lack luster performance and ill handling. a low rider may be more up your alley or if youre looking for some more comfort for long miles/storage then maybe a road king. police road kings can be found for far less money than a regular road king. HD is releasing a low rider S soon that will come with the 110" motor in it. HDs bolt on 117" kit should fit as well, so you
could be looking at 114hp/114ft lbs HD that is relatively "light" and will actually handle. thats just my opinion though
the diavel is definitely interesting. id like to ride one sometime. looks very batman. i briefly took a spin a new v max and was quite impressed with the GO. i didnt ride it far enough to get any more of an opinion on it though. the streetfighter is one that looks good on paper. i took JCs out for a spin on the track. lots of GO to push your eyeballs back. lots of WHOA to pull them back out.
i think you need to figure out what characteristics in a bike would get you to ride it more. then find the bikes that fit that. i didnt need to go 120 mph everywhere and thats why i got rid of my SV1k, because thats what i was doing. i needed something slower but fun. the supermoto only goes 100 or so but it does 70 everywhere. highway, back roads, school zones, sidewalks, you name it. and wheelies. with all the wheelies, youd think i would be better at them.