When my wife wants to go, since she rides slowly, I ride my slow-ass dual sport, and take it easy. I dont subscribe to the idea that Im such an adrenaline junky that 100% of my rides have to be at twice the posted limit or its not worth going. My enjoyment on the rides with her comes from enjoying the scenery, the destination, and from helping her get more comfortable riding street. Plus i get to feel so enlightened that not every single ride is ALL ABOUT ME.