[97BladeRider]

Originally Posted by Ri_De_bike

a tip: keep good banking records. when the dor is involved you need them. if dor takes a claim on you (know or unknown) and you continue to pay support directly to your ex they have no record of the exchange.

THis is why I direct deposit my son's support directly into my ex's checking account. That way, there is ALWAYS a record of it. It's a pain in the ass to set up, since you have to sign all kinds of permissions. (thanks to 9/11) But it's worth it to be a seamless method of payment and records.

[Ri_De_bike]

Originally Posted by Jaynnus

I CAN say bullshit.....I have three kids and get 32.00 a week. That was not a typo, 32.00

I would never contest, or ask for more even though I have every right to ask for a review every 6 years....they are my kids, and I can take care of them just fine.

As for the divorce...I think I paid 300.00. The trick is...don't fight over stupid material items. At one point in time you loved each other, or at least thought you did...suck it up, get together, be reasonable and work it out. It is not that hard. Anything he wanted....I gave him. All I wanted to was keep the last name so my kids always felt like they 'belonged' to me.

good advice ^ why pay a lawyer thousands for a three hundred dollar couch......however......................
32.00 a week is outragous and not being able to file a modification is criminal.... wth happened there? 6 years?

you are a superstar mom.... i hope your kids understand what they have with you!

[akira700]

I tell ya you open the flood gates and the shit will pour forth! And there is no
end! Believe me I know.

Best bet is to stay free and get an operation to stop those crazy spermies!!

Nelson Mandela once said "anger is the poison you drink in the hopes that your
enemy will die!" ya gotta accept it and move on!

Lets change the subject and talk about Boston Gixxer's new 750.

Tell us man how does it compare to your old Duc?

[Ri_De_bike]

Originally Posted by 97BladeRider

THis is why I direct deposit my son's support directly into my ex's checking account. That way, there is ALWAYS a record of it. It's a pain in the ass to set up, since you have to sign all kinds of permissions. (thanks to 9/11) But it's worth it to be a seamless method of payment and records.

if you knew MY ex you'd realize why i'd never ask for her account info to set up direct. after seven years divorced if she has a bad day it is MY FAULT..

i had hoped for a better relationship with my ex... at least a working partnership.... what i got was something different.

chuck i had no clue you'd been divorced / remarried or whatever, happy for ya! things seem to be going good.

[Ri_De_bike]

Originally Posted by akira700

I tell ya you open the flood gates and the shit will pour forth! And there is no
end! Believe me I know.

Lets change the subject and talk about Boston Gixxer's new 750.

Tell us man how does it compare to your old Duc?

sorrry bud i'm upping my post count <bfg>

[Nix]

Originally Posted by Mongoose441

Two Things I cant afford:
1) A boat
2) A divorce

Much more affordable:

1.) Steel shovel
2.) Bag of Lime

Just sayin...

[Nix]

Originally Posted by Jaynnus

I CAN say bullshit.....I have three kids and get 32.00 a week. That was not a typo, 32.00

I would never contest, or ask for more even though I have every right to ask for a review every 6 years....they are my kids, and I can take care of them just fine.

As for the divorce...I think I paid 300.00. The trick is...don't fight over stupid material items. At one point in time you loved each other, or at least thought you did...suck it up, get together, be reasonable and work it out. It is not that hard. Anything he wanted....I gave him. All I wanted to was keep the last name so my kids always felt like they 'belonged' to me.

Wow. $32? Sucks. Jane's outlook and considerationf for her kids? Priceless.

[ceo012384]

Sorry to hear about this man.

This is why I will probably die alone with many toys.

[jnm988]

Originally Posted by ceo012384

Sorry to hear about this man.

This is why I will probably die alone with many toys.

FUCK IT! I'd rather die alone and happy than miserable with someone else!

[Brian675]

Originally Posted by jnm988

FUCK IT! I'd rather die alone and happy than miserable with someone else!

Thats kinda sad you think like that.

Edit: But thats your decision to make.

[Cowboyrider]

hey watch what you write - seriously, when my fiance was going through his divorce his ex pulled everything she could find about me off the web to bring to court. that's why i didn't really post for a year or so. Luckily the judge told her to bug off and that she couldn't use stuff she found on the web about me.

She was trying to get it so he couldn't have the kids because of me.


Just saying so I wouldn't joke too much until everything is final!

[greenmonster]

Originally Posted by Cowboyrider

hey watch what you write - seriously, when my fiance was going through his divorce his ex pulled everything she could find about me off the web to bring to court. that's why i didn't really post for a year or so. Luckily the judge told her to bug off and that she couldn't use stuff she found on the web about me.

She was trying to get it so he couldn't have the kids because of me.


Just saying so I wouldn't joke too much until everything is final!

So, what exactly did she find?

[MissTwisties]

Nice "assless" chaps in your avatar. (where's Pete?)

[Cowboyrider]

She found nothing other than one blog entry that talked about a night of being drunk - i was legal age and actually wrote about how I didn't like being drunk.

but the point was she was trying to find something so she was looking everywhere. she may still be looking but now I don't have to care.

Its just always a good idea to realize that whatever you put on the internet can come back and haunt you!

[Cowboyrider]

Thanks! Its not me though - can't take credit for that

Originally Posted by MissTwisties

Nice "assless" chaps in your avatar. (where's Pete?)

[greenmonster]

Originally Posted by Cowboyrider

She found nothing other than one blog entry that talked about a night of being drunk - i was legal age and actually wrote about how I didn't like being drunk.

but the point was she was trying to find something so she was looking everywhere. she may still be looking but now I don't have to care.

Its just always a good idea to realize that whatever you put on the internet can come back and haunt you!

1. She sounds like a nasty bitch.
2. Youre absolutely right about watching what you put on the internet. It's becoming more common for potential employers to do web searches on job applicants. And more than a few people have been passed over, even if theyre qualified for the job, because the company found stuff on them that has come back to haunt those looking for a job. Companies dont want to hire those who post up pictures of themselves getting drunk, nude photo's, or worse. Once its posted, it's there for good!!

[ssg]

So why's everyone getting divorced?

[S4R_GRL]

Originally Posted by TLRMan

I even signed paperwork to keep DOR out of it, GUESS WHAT? The DOR attached my friggen paycheck! (I was paying her directly) YUP, unless She tells them she doesn't want them involved, it stays. Then they went after me for non payment (I was paying her directly), and she had to sign more paperwork to tell them I already paid...

I don't know much about MA law, but in RI it is required to have wage garnishment, for this reason. Hopefully you were sensible enough to pay with a check, if so you can easily prove your past payments. But this leads to a question,

WHY WOULD ANYONE PAY DIRECTLY???

You are divorced because you couldn't get along when married??

[Ćheese]

Originally Posted by ssg

So why's everyone getting divorced?

Ex wouldn't let me ride a motorcycle.

That said, Chuck will probably back me up on this one; don't give up on marriage. Once you find the right person, a lifetime companionship is very rewarding.

[S4R_GRL]

Originally Posted by Cheese-GSXR

don't give up on marriage. Once you find the right person, a lifetime companionship is very rewarding.

[jnm988]

Originally Posted by CMG241

now your question makes sense.

+1000000000000000000000000

I was just hanging out with a guy I work with who is 35, gorgeous and never been married and we were discussing that it seems when guys get into their 30's, they feel the need to get married, so they marry the wrong person, are miserable and ultimately either cheat or just stop trying and get divorced.

Kind of jades you.

[bostongixxer]

Originally Posted by akira700

Lets change the subject and talk about Boston Gixxer's new 750.

Tell us man how does it compare to your old Duc?

No updates yet on that, as the gixxer won't be arriving until the end of this week...plus, I'm still recovering from my nasty T3 crash on May 11th (see Degsy's post about the Motard that hit my in the Formula 40 race). I owned an 05 gixxer 750 prior to the Duc, and can tell you that it's one hell of a bike. Looking forward to taking it out...and getting back to the track.

On the divorce front, pretrial on Thursday...lawyers are meeting today (settlement a longshot)

[Jaynnus]

Originally Posted by Cheese-GSXR

That said, Chuck will probably back me up on this one; don't give up on marriage. Once you find the right person, a lifetime companionship is very rewarding.

Where is the 'I want to choke myself' smilie?

I just don't see me ever having a lifetime companion....but I am totally good with that. It's just not for everyone.

[jnm988]

Originally Posted by Jaynnus

Where is the 'I want to choke myself' smilie?

I just don't see me ever having a lifetime companion....but I am totally good with that. It's just not for everyone.

To me, that's like going to Baskin Robins and only eating one flavor when there are SOOOOOOO many to choose from. Doesn't make sense

[Crash Dummy Denno]

Originally Posted by Jaynnus

Where is the 'I want to choke myself' smilie?

I just don't see me ever having a lifetime companion....but I am totally good with that. It's just not for everyone.

SO WHAT WAS ALL THAT ONE IN A MILLION TALK?!?